The odds of getting back together will really lessen if you don’t have any faith in yourself, because lack of self confidence is a sure way of keeping your ex uninterested. If you are wondering how to get your ex back, you might just have to work on your self esteem before you make any other moves to win your ex affection back. Once you are feeling good about yourself and you are confident, then it will be time to take those next steps of winning your ex’s heart again.