If your older brother- who after years of struggle finally decided to become a priest- gives you his collection of mens cufflinks, what would you do? Of course, select those items that you can use and hand-down the rest to even younger brothers or to charity. If your tastes are alike, most of the items in his collection will surely suit you fine. But if your personalities differ a lot and your preferences disparate (he’s religious, ain’t he?), then most likely you could only use a few of the things he owned. Perhaps two or three of the three dozens pairs of cross cufflinks he had would be to your liking, but using them all by yourself is out of the question. That simply isn’t your personality.